Thanks...There was never any issues before, during or after the divorce where she put any legal restrictions on my seeing them. I guess I wanted to be the bigger person and respect her wishes when it came to the kids, as I don’t have any legal right/options when it came to visitation and have to rely on her generousity. I would hate to see anything end up with her going to the courts for some sort of PPO.....
The odd thing was that she seemed to snap into a different person at the end and wanted to completely cut all ties to make it easier to move on(for both of us).
I hope that the fog lifts for her sooner than later....I can’t imagine carrying that kind of hatred for someone I use to be so in love with.


M 52
W 40
D 15 (step)
S 12 (step)
Married 7, together almost 8
Separated 1 year before bomb from her "I love you, I'm just..."
BD final 8/22/12