Been following your posts. You repsonded to Spartan's question with this:
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What do I want out of my life? In an ideal world I want my family together - I am a real family man - this is obviously something which I cannot control unfortunately.
What else do you want for your life? I know it's early and things have moved quickly. Meditating on this with regards to many facets of my life was really helpful for me.
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Apparently her friend is now trying again with her husband - I wonder if this will effect her thought process?
I know it takes time...you need to detach and not think about her every thought and action.
As far as the friend goes, I wouldn't count on her influence and as much as possible, fill you mind and life with other stuff. I know how hard that is to do.
Love the guitar lessons btw.
HUGS
Thank you for your advice - it is appreciated. I am trying to fill my life with things I want to be doing - but it's so easy to slip - and wonder what she's doing, who she's with etc. It still feels very raw for me, but I know that I am a little more detached this week than I was last week - it will no doubt be a slow process for me.
W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs 8 year old Son ILYBINILWY - Dec 12 W moved out - Jan 2013 OM - Jan 2013 I file for D - May 2013
