Portia, Your man is still in the throes of mlc and it takes time to get to the point of relationship talks. Right now, he's rebounding from the breakup w/his gf and he's still settled.
Always remember that the basis of any relationship is being friends first. I know it is frustrating for you right now, but you need to just sit back, listen and follow his lead if you want him to remain in your life. Just remember, there is no guarantee that he and the gf won't get back together or he finds another one because he's not out of mlc yet.
There will come a time for talks but now is not the time. Stay the course and be patient.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
