I know it touches on this in the DR book - but is it usual for the WAS to speak in such certain terms? It's like she hasn't even considered trying to work on our marriage... maybe she hasn't... but everything seems like its so clear to her.
"I'm never coming back" "We will never be together again" "I will never love you"
That word "never" seems to appear in all conversations regarding our R - just really hoping for some clarification if this is usual please...
It is the way she FEELS right now. There is no arguing with her feelings, could they change? Well apparently you have already seen them change.
Originally Posted By: Intact
JOURNAL: Few texts of W today regarding our Son but they are back to being very cold. No kisses on the end as there was yesterday - just short, sharp statements - is this usual as well? The constant change in how she interacts with me? From warm to cold - day by day...
Yes she is cycling. This journey is like travelling on a slinky, you go round and round and move forward the width of the slinky. Takes a long TIME to get anywhere. Stop trying to measure it and just accept the process.
