Portia,

I am actual in the early stages of my sitch, and cannot offer advice on this, but do have empathy. I too am in the "Freind Zone" and am curious on how others respond to this. We text and email only, but it is all chit-chat stuff, some flirty comments every now and again. I have gone along with it as opposed to the alternative, as at least it gives me some comfort to have a dialogue with him (which is often the old him that I know and Love smile ). But I am the same no R talks unless he initiates. Also, we have children together, and part of me does it for them too. I know deep in my heart this man will never be out of my life because of them, so I figured I would go with it. I guess if I could offer advice it would be to just remember to keep your expectations to zero and you will do fine.


BombOctober 2012-
OW 11/28/12 -H still denies
Separated 11/29/12
Own place 12/12/12
Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13
Oct 2013 - I knew I was done
Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life