I just told her I don't feel so good because I have a cold and get response was 'ok baby. I will take care of you when you come home'. Wtf??

See what mean? This is why I am anxious to bust up the affair. I feel like it's the hurdle for our M being worked on right now.

Am I being naiive?

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017