Yes....they both play sports...and D15 is also in orchestra, 1st chair violin (I have been banned from seeing that as well)
I just got done talking to a coach about hitting practice for the boy, as to get a bigger edge on the start of spring ball. But with no contact, cant even bring that up
I would stop asking for permission from her. Orchestra concerts are public events. So did the school or judge write you a letter saying you are unable to attend these?
I would just go to them. Stay NC with her but not with the kids.