Is there any hope after all of this? And why do I love her after all of this?
Yes there is always HOPE as long as you can have it within YOU. You need to re-read what she has said and listen. Maybe it is all not true. However if something in this STINGS then that is the part you need to work on. This letter from her is riddled with WAW speak. However I am sure there is much truth to it too. It is a GIFT, a roadmap of the things that you need to work on. Many of us dont get that. You need to make changes to yourself, so that in your next relationship you will be a better person.
I know that one of the things she said must be true. If you really loved her then you would let her go.
That is UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.
She admits to having issues that have nothing to do with YOU. She needs TIME and SPACE to work on those issues.
GIVE it to HER.
It will be the most important thing that you can DO!