OK. Question. Do I give the wife a Valentine's Day card, or not? I have one just in case.
Our anniversary comes up in March. I asked if she would like to go out to dinner then. She asked me, "what are we celebrating?" A little sarcasm was added. All I said was, "we have been married for 12 years."
I'm thinking I wasted money on a card, but figured I'd check with you guys first. My wife is NEVER the first one to initiate communication. She has never been that way. Even when we dated. I would call her on the phone and she would literally tell me I was crazy for calling her long distance. She always waits for me to make the first move. It makes it very difficult to bridge the gap between us without running the risk of pressuring her.
