I know it touches on this in the DR book - but is it usual for the WAS to speak in such certain terms? It's like she hasn't even considered trying to work on our marriage... maybe she hasn't... but everything seems like its so clear to her.

"I'm never coming back" "We will never be together again" "I will never love you"

That word "never" seems to appear in all conversations regarding our R - just really hoping for some clarification if this is usual please...

GAL - 2nd guitar lesson tonight which I'm really looking forward too.

JOURNAL: Few texts of W today regarding our Son but they are back to being very cold. No kisses on the end as there was yesterday - just short, sharp statements - is this usual as well? The constant change in how she interacts with me? From warm to cold - day by day...

She spent the evening yesterday with her best friend - I felt before that she was a little toxic as she too had separated from her husband. Apparently her friend is now trying again with her husband - I wonder if this will effect her thought process?


W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs
8 year old Son
ILYBINILWY - Dec 12
W moved out - Jan 2013
OM - Jan 2013
I file for D - May 2013