hopper- i just wanted to comment on a prior post of yours about your h seeming happier, etc. and also aboutyou being guy in control.
as a woman feeling mightily out of control alot of the time- i admire your strengh and foresight.
i'm working very hard and doing lots and lots better with the whole let it cool off and let it simmer thing.
i do from time to time ask a question or comment and "tip my hand". i'm trying to remember what tsq or someone out there and wise said "if you've said it once - they heard it - don't repeat".
funny thing tho- he hears what i say (probably- maybe) he has no idea of the things he's said. i'm pretty much sure across the board he panics when he "argues" and just throws out all kinds of dopey junk and isn't even aware.
anywy- i get off point- you're strength of character are inspiring. i'm trying hard- im using your good example.
i'm, not nearly as nice about it i think- but i'm at least keep ing that under wraps most of the time.
i'm outta here- lost my thread. hope you're feeling well and kids too. i think about you alot- i sure wish we all were neighbors so could help each other out in person- but this is still great and a real blesisng in my life.
