House for sale. So Sad. Family Breaking Up (pt 3)

[FloydMan]

Wow, thanks everyone. It is not the money so much as raising my kids as I have been doing all along. It is a money grab for her though...I really sense that. She spends and cannot afford her lifestyle alone. It would mean about $1600.00/month in support. I cannot afford that either and be comfortable. Her set up would be me every other weekend and every Wednesday. Kids would be in suitcases. I have countered with the same but would accept 50/50 and no less. I think I have the ability to lose the resentment more than she. I have lost a lot of it and let go of a lot of it, but obviously some still there as it pertains to her lies about me. She cannot prove me a bad father as she has always lauded my fatherhood and how much I do to family, friends and the MC's and in notes I have kept. I have been more dedicated than most to be perfectly unbiased. She has said this too. She is more painting me to be a bad husband than father. She is definitely running on emotion. It is a L's dream for sure. We have a major snowstorm today and she was going to work...I filled her washer fluid as it was empty and she gave me crap for that. She was cordial when we first got the kids up and I took my youngest to school. When I got back she was so nasty....I think she got my L's response letter while I was out. It had clearly stated my position on the house and my intent to purchase it, referred to her affair and not to treat d10 like she does. I get the sense she is not fully upfront with her L. I could be wrong.