Not Alcoholic Anonymous, AlAnon is for friends and families of problem drinkers or druggers most of whom are codependent. Google it. Even reading the literature can be very helpful.

I went and it helped me tremendously.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss