Little. In all seriousness. If I listened to people like LA, 25, Bond, KD (very early on) and SO MANY others on this forum it would have not taken me a year plus to attend EE or discover that I am ACOA. You have been graced with some valuable information. It is your choice on what you will do with it. It may come across as harsh but everyone has been exactly where you are at. Good luck and keep pushing forward
