About filling him in on the kids, unless it's something really big, do you think it's necessary or is it you wanting to make a connection. And I don't fault you for wanting to make the connection, I did too.
But to your H it most likely feels like pressure, more of the same.
Leave him adrift in the sea without moorings and see what happens, which way he paddles his boat.
It's his life, let him live it.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
