reforce on me

[Spartan]

LittleGTO - Just getting caught back up on your sitch. I had my 2x4 ready also after I read your post but I think that's been taken care of . You are worth more than this, stop pursuing him.

So I have a question for you about control because it's something I deal with also and one of main reasons I'm on these boards. Why do you think you need to control things? Don't answer superficially but dig deep. My answer surprised me but was enlightening for my development. Once you know the answer next question is what can you do to change?

This was posting on here some time ago, sorry I don't know who originally posted it:

Letting Go (Of Control)
•To "let go" does not mean to stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else.
•To "let go" is not to cut myself off, it's the realization I can't control another.
•To "let go" is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.
•To "let go" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.
•To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another, it's to make the most of myself.
•To "let go" is not to care for, but to care about.
•To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.
•To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.
•To "let go" is not to be in the middle arranging the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.
•To "let go" is not to be protective, it's to permit another to face reality.
•To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept.
•To "let go" it not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings, and correct them.
•To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires but to take each day as it comes, and cherish myself in it.
•To "let go" is not to criticize and regulate anybody but to try to become what I dream I can be.
•To "let go" is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.
•To "let go" is to fear less, and love more.