Little, As has been said several times earlier, keep the focus on you and your kiddos.
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And that is the awesomeness that is my kid <3
...and having great ones like you do ^^^^^ , makes it easier.
Take the tips and the 2 x 4s in stride all for your own betterment. In the end, regardless of the M outcome, you will grow and become even more amazing of a person.