Little # 4 on your list killed my M. I let exw decide what was best for my D even when I knew she was wrong. I became resentful and passive. When chit hit the fan I got angry and verbally abusive. I don't like confrontation. So I sat on my hands till I got pissed. My D as a result is in a lot of trouble. May repeat the 9th grade a 3rd time because I wasn't involved or agreed with exw just to keep the peace. Make sure that the kids are 1st and the R 2nd.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
