Are you moving on in terms of filing for D? Or, are you moving on for yourself and making her do the "dirty work?"
It's interesting how the power shifts when we (LBS) take control of our own lives and make decisions for our own futures.
You KNOW you are going to see more pursuit behaviors from her, right? ANd, that they are just part of the same ol' cycle.
Your boys are similar ages to mine (although I have one more S9)...looking forward to planning adventures just the 4 of us! Not up for surfing, but am somewhat adventurous. IDeas???
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.