House for sale. So Sad. Family Breaking Up (pt 3)

[FloydMan]

Last summer she had agreed to 50/50. October she gets a litigator instead of Collaborative Family Law like I suggested we do. The litigator changed it to 75/25. It is a money grab. When I asked her why she changed and why she felt she should have custody like that her answer was "Because I'm the mother!" Let me tell you straight up and honest....she has been an absentee mother and I literally everything. I have countered with primary residence and access for me at 75/25. There are also financial assets to be argued for and net family property...all my hard earned savings. The litigators are salivating and going to drain it and court is inevitable. I have no choice though as she is taking it there. She is a lost soul. She was not like this for years. She changed dramatically in last 3 years and even worse in last 2. I pray every night she snaps out of it. I just don't get the hate. Just don't.