Wow, thanks for the strong responses, Rick & 2thepoint!

I'll focus on what to get/do for the boys. Oh, yeah, we are going to adopt a kitten! smile It'll be a surprise they'll love!

Five things I'm working on:
1) Showing appreciation/gratitude for little things done by others (thank you for every little thing--honestly).
2) Trying to really listen to what others are saying w/o readying my own response/opinions.
3) "Don't sweat the small stuff." Really since BD.
4) Letting go of control (esp when making decisions about kids-I always ask H his opinion & really try to agree on a joint decision rather than trumping his opinion when I don't agree).
5) GAL outside of home/joint friends/boys....not so good on this one, but am trying. Signed up for meet-ups, although have not had opportunity to go yet.


Been doing these (except #5) consistently for a while now, so they are really becoming more natural for me.

Tori & ruby, bustin and tallula and whoever else.....I'd love to join you all on the blanket! smile

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.