I mentioned a mediator because she would not talk to me about the closing of our house, now all the proceeds are sitting in an escrow account. Useless to both of us. I wanted her to decide, her to pick one of she did.
Thinking of one of her reasons of why she left me, and I quote " you need to be with Blonde haor blue eye girl who likes to go to the beach." I responded to that by saying I chose her I didn't choose someone like that."

I will let her do it our her own. I will go to mediator jsut to state to financial facts.
I will no longer combine justice and vengeance.....