reforce on me

[littleGTO]

PON- Thanks to the reference to your name. I have heard of this book, but not read it. I'll add it to my list. A New Earth..hmm.

Pathfinder, Thanks for the perspective that OW will not always look the same to H or vice versa. You are right that their R has to evolve at some point.

TOday-
Interaction w H was better- still mostly about schedule/kids. But, we are getting a huge snowstorm tomorrow & I asked H point blank (nicely) if he was coming to snowplow us out or if he wasn't. He said right away he was planning to come.

Also, when he was leaving I asked him for a hug. Its been a little while (over a week?) since we've hugged.

He hugged me briefly and then said something about me hanging up on him the other night (like that's why he's been cold??)

Earlier this week ...After S9 talked to him on phone I was filling him in on some things & he just cut me off in the middle of a sentence, so I quickly said, "Well, I guess you're done talking to me. S11 will call you later. Click")

So after he mentioned me hanging up on him I gently let him know this was in response to him cutting me off. He said, "Yeah, I probably did that." I felt validated, but didn't feel good that I hadn't risen above to just not let his cutting me off bother me.

Not really a baby step, but feels better than H being cold.