Sorry your lunch left you feeling badly. But, now it's over. Maybe it will help you with some closure and help you to move on a little more easily. IDK.
Sorry you stumbled on the test your H had, but maybe that was intended for you to find (not by H). As awful as that may have felt for you, it may also help you to distance from him.
TIme for you. You ARE a woman only a FOOL would leave! SO, I guess that makes your H.....
I love the idea that you are thinking about taking the wealth of knowledge you've learned on your journey to help others who are struggling along similar paths!
Take care of you.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.