NLW, Maslow's hierarchy says that physiological and safety needs have to be met before you can move on. So you answered the question.

You're like Mother Bear striking out to protect her cubs. You're reacting from that primitive part of yourself, which is very understandable.

What can you do to take care of those basics so you'll feel that your children have what they need and are safe?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss