First off, there can't be OM involved with W if you want this to succeed. And she has to understand this.
Second, if you still had OW in the wings, then you weren't totally committed to R either.
The two of you have to get rid of distractions and focus on each other. And I'm not talking about a week or two. R only works when two people look around for help and the only person they see is each other.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.