Anotherstander: i dont mind living in japan, it different but its exciting too. I like to sightsee and walk around alot so its not like im cooped up all day. I do have friends here to that i hang out with. I was unhappy because my husband never upheld his end of things financially. He was at first working full time but quit his job because he didnt like thr management and then found a part time job. I was also working partime but as the months went by he never had the drive to get a full time job. Subsiquently we never had money to do anything fun, only live day to day and if i wanted to do anything special i had to work the extra hours to make th extra money, he would never lift a finger to try harder. Maybe part of his depression too.
Grace_O: his family is fine with me, they even tell him to be extra sensitive about me because i am a foreigner. I talk to them often so we are not strangers. They were at our wedding and gave us their blessing. No problems with the inlaws.
In the mean time, i am working on my health right now. I had a scarry episode on yaz birth control and now im off of it and doing herbal therapy to help with some of the problems it caused me. I am also going to the philippines this month to visit my grandma! So i am very much getting a life and enjoy myself. I invited my husband but of course he said no. Oh well, i will just go alone and enjoy myself and my time with my grandma alone.
