Intriguing that and how firmly you write that. Currently the situation seems to be bleak and hopeless, so this sentence as you wrote it never came to my mind. But hey, you could be right! Even if the OM R won't end in the foreseeable future I thank you for your boldness. Yes, I have to live "as if" - as if she will return the next day.
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Focus on you. How can you be a better H, a better man?
Two major points: - I didn't show my wife how much she means to me. If we ever start piecing that's one area where I will try to improve a lot. - I frequently was too stingy. A new house, three little kids - I often refused vacation suggestions she made. We achieved our financial goals but my wife had much less fun with the family than she wanted to have.