I am only suggesting trite because, her excuses changed as our time apart grow.. It was like she was grasping for answers when I asked why. We are going to mediation. I wrote to her and told her that I will not be asking for a divorce. She responded she would like a divorce. I feeel like. "responding that was the trouble with our marriage I always did what you liked. And lost site of my wants and needs". But that is probably not a good idea.
