I am still in day by day mode. But, my thoughts drift to the future sometimes. I can't see H CHOOSING to let OW go. Not at all. And, the more time that goes by the harder it is for me to see the possibility of us ever R.
GTO,
Remember that, although you can't see him giving up the OW, he will not be able to maintain the feeling he has with her forever. Sooner or later, the new car smell is gonna fade away and he's gonna be stuck with something less than what he thinks he has. Then she's not going to look so good to him anymore. It can also work the other way around, too. She may get tired of him and decide to pull the plug. The fact is that you indeed cannot tell the future. Keep your chin up, GTO! You definitely have something he likes. REFINE it!
