so hard to go dark

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First thread

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...600#Post2318600

First try to stick to one thread it is less confusing that way.

I think you should absolutely try to see the children, do you really need to contact her for that?
Or could you contact them directly?
The girl is 15, sounds like she should be old enough to decide for herself.

I am assuming that you helped to raise these two children.

Try to keep the contact with the W to a minimum