Originally Posted By: AnotherStander

I'm not sure what you were waiting for, but it's never too late to turn over a new leaf. What have you done about the depression? That's not something you can normally resolve on your own. Get help, and do it for you.


I have! I'm going to a therapist, adjusted my meds with my doctor, and am going to the gym five nights a week (lifting weights and cardio). So far I've lost 30 lbs since the BD.

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How can the DB tactics work when you're already living in different locations and don't have kids to force the occasional contact?


Well, having minimal contact can actually be a benefit. The idea is to give your W time and space. Don't contact her at all. If she contacts you then it's OK to respond, but don't initiate contact. [/quote]

This is going to be so hard. It feels like she's already over me. She doesn't even text or email, much less call.

What does everyone recommend I do regarding Valentine's Day?