"I really wasn't focusing on my wife again. Laurie asked,me to call her after I had made notes in how much physical touch my W would allow."

Still too soon. It's only been one time. See if she returns any physical touch ON HER OWN and not a time when you initiate or ask for it.

"Also I would not want to be intimate with W while she is seeing OM. I don't like the idea of a love triangle and I believe her ethics would not allow it. She has flat out refused me completely because she views herself as his woman now."

No one said anything about intimacy. You have to stop thinking in extremes and think more gray actions. Little things add up to big ones.

"Saturday wife and I go to Theresa Caputo show."

So you two still go out even though she's seeing another guy?


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER