Have you checked out veroprado's recent threads? she just moved to the piecing forum. her H is making movement back to her and she is experiencing some of the same fears. i think you could help each other, if you are not doing so already.
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Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13