I don't even know where to start, I never write loooooooooooooong posts because I hate typing my messed up life for the world to see
H called me yesterday saying "I want this sh!t over now, I'm tired of waiting" I said "I bet you are" he was yelling at me so I said I won't listen to this so he said he was gonna sell the house from under me blah blah blah...so I hung up on him. He called 9 more times and I didn't answer.
When I spoke to my lawyer he said I asked for a drug test last week and now he's freaking out.
The OW called S17 last night because apparently hetext her a rude text. She said she understood how he didn't want to see reality of the situation that I was a bad wife etc...S17 lost it on her, she said "your dad wasn't happy with your mom before you were even born" S17 said "So instead of divorcing her after a couple years of marriage they had 3 kids he stayed another 20 years and now its ok to leave? Wow your an idiot!" She went from I think your dad is really messed up and I don't find him attractive to you need to respect your dad... the b!tch is a whackjob!
Then H called S17 and S17 lost it with him, H said you only feel the way you do because of mom is telling you lies? S17 said I see what you've done, I see how you've changed your not the dad I grew up with...I'm embarassed by you so it has nothing to do with mom this is all you. It went on for awhile with H blaming me for everything ofcourse.
Just sick of getting the blame for everything and he take no responsibility at all...getting exhausted by it all.
On a brighter note S17 won 2nd place in regional competition for marketing for school, now he goes to state finals and hopefully then nationals in California...so proud of him.
M 41 H 43 M 22 S 18 S 14 D 11 Affair discovered 1/12 He filed 2/12 OW#2 7/12 she lives next door. D pending
