I really wasn't focusing on my wife again. Laurie asked,me to call her after I had made notes in how much physical touch my W would allow.

Also the previous posters had asked,me the questions that relate to my W.

That's why I had the disclaimer about these posts not being due to me being codependent.

Also I would not want to be intimate with W while she is seeing OM. I don't like the idea of a love triangle and I believe her ethics would not allow it. She has flat out refused me completely because she views herself as his woman now. I think that is why Laurie. Interested in how much physical touch she would allow. I will have to ask laurie exactly what we are trying to establish.

For me and my sanity, I am trying to focus on the GAL activities and the launch of my new business which is on one week. It is too early in my sitch to worry about W. I was really just reporting an update.

Back to my GAL! I am going out with friends on friday night for a crazy night on the town. Saturday wife and I go to Theresa Caputo show. Sunday I reserved for the zoo with D3.

Next week I have a tight schedule for retail store #3 launch! So excited !


Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017