Although Cadet is very straightforward ;), he has a couple of good points. The expectation that your wife, even if she wants to try again, or changes her mind, has come along with you for the ride, is there.
So now, I think, the decision rests with you. Do you file and begin dating again or do you wait? Since my H is dating (ahem) and has GF, I have been vacillating between dating (H wants me to) and not, until my feelings are clearer than this.
I do, however, have a timeline, that I will re examine once it becomes due. Whether to move on completely, or continue the mindset I have now. It is not a bad place I am now, but it does put me in limbo as far as Rs go, not my own personal growth, but growth with a potential partner.
I guess the short version is everyone has a timeline. Once you say, I have done the best to my ability and I am done here, so be it. Personally, I think, your DBing has been awesome. I tell you though, you haven't resolved this fully yet, but again, you decide where to go from here.
