Do you realize that HER crisis is not a marriage issue?
It may look like a marriage issue, but it really is just HER having a crisis.
Do you think that? I'm asking in all honesty, because the way I see it she's not in a crisis at all. She's just done with me. She doesn't say it in an angry, hurtful or confused way, it's almost like she's talking about the weather.
Yes I do and both her response and yours is absolute script, straight from the book.
Originally Posted By: AnotherStander
Originally Posted By: cadet
If she was sick with cancer would you be dating?
Ummm, what form of cancer is it that puts her in another man's bed (or makes her invite him into hers) and makes her decide she doesn't like me, that's what I want to know, LOL! Maybe that's not totally fair since to this day I don't know how far her A has gone (and I'm making no effort to find out), but it's at least an EA, and probably a PA. But I'm not dating out of revenge or anything, I do care for her and wish her the best. Heck, I even get along great with the OM. I'm doing it because I am moving on, and I thoroughly enjoy the companionship.
Again she is in crisis and this comment is proving that you have no clue about it. If you are moving on then file for divorce and be legally done before you start dating. What you are doing is no different than what she has done. Two wrongs dont make a right.
