Is this cake eating? 10

[wishing, hoping]

Yes! Your H is trying to scare and intimidate you. He is transparent as window glass just like my H. Don't let him do this. I cannot believe he has left you in such a predicament. What a jerk!!

You need to protect you and your kids. Let your H look like a jack@ss in court. He will make an @ss of himself for sure. That's why he wants to settle out of court. He knows the judge will throw the book at him.

Pray and follow your gut! It will not steer you wrong.