"But because I am supposed to do good to my enemies, and take the high road and love them, and I'm commited being a Christian no matter what, later this evening I sent her an email saying I was happy she could have some money from our property back in France."
That's quite a backhanded comment. I'm sorry it turned out like that, BUT your L and 25 told you exactly what would happen. What does your L suggest now?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.