Sexless marriage. H Left. Now retrouvaille in 3wks

[AM2012]

So I bought a house and I have possesion in 3 weeks. I bought the house entirely under my name, my savings etc, however since we are still legally married he round be entitled to half unless I get a legal document stating its mine.

H tells me the other day that he would like to definitely move in and even buy all the appliances. I have very mixed feelings. I definitely want him there, but he has not yet made commitment to me. Just 3 weeks ago after retro he was going to get his own place so not sure when all this changed. I assume out of fear and guilt. No clue.

Do you think that I should ask him for a commitment or something before allowing him to move in? If I do ask for that there is a very good chance that he will say he can't do this at this time as he needs to take it day by day and will get his own place at which a seperation agreement will need to be in place. Or do I let him move in and continue to take this day by day. Not sure what to do.