Thanks snodderly I appreciate your advice very much. Some people in my family think i am being too nice and I should serve him at work but I have to live with myself and like people here said I should not lower myself . My attorney says to take the high ground and she says she has to be honest so she can sleep at night. Well me too. I want to be the better person. Still I am anxious and i still care about him. Thanks so much snodderly.
