Well, the only reason I really know my H isn't 100% done, is he hasn't filed for D. One minute he is done, the next he isn't. One minute he is affectionate, the next he isn't. Michelle doesn't say to believe less than half of what you hear...blah. You know it. That's the way to look at it. She hasn't filed, so there is a chance. Mine is a serial cheater, so...yeah. Let's not even go there. My sitch is jacked up. Like Sandi said, she showed NO SIGNS of wanting the R to work. ALl we can do, it stop making the sitch worse and focus on the only thing we can change, us. I hope my H wants to change and be a faithful H. But, I can't pretend that I don't have things to work on in the meantime. I'll need to work on those if I EVER want a healthier, happier me.