You know, as strange as it may be... I agree with you that I don't think we're done yet... and I'm now SURE that I'm not done with it, even if I did waver for a few weeks there.
I just hear too much confusion, and there's too much "foot-dragging" and justification to really think that there's nothing at all there. But IF it's there, it's buried deep... and it could all just be guilt and nothing more... so I'll keep trying not to read into it, and stay on track.
Well, that's the pisser in it all, bro -- like that scene in the movie "Swingers," you actually DO have to not care in order for it to work. It can't be faked.
You DO need to move on down the road, wherever that takes you. Just be prepared, because when she REALLY senses that you've REALLY moved on (and I don't even think you're quiiiite there yet) . . . the chances are at least 50/50 that she will pursue YOU.