almost 3 months....seems like eternity

[Grizz]

Suckerpunch, it is really hard to not look for signs however when you "think" you see signs, it is not much better. Confusion really starts to set in. I also look for signs but I know I shouldn't. My W still kisses me goodbye and we still occasionally ML yet she still acts and says she wants out. Talk about beating you up mentally. And try detaching with that going on. Don't get me wrong, I love the affection and love still being able to be with my W. I am sure others may envy my position even. But I don't feel like a lucky guy at all. I am still being told the same as many others in here by my W. It hurts terribly every time I see an action or hear something from her about leaving. So try not to put too much stock into seeing changes or hope. You may see things that you are hoping for which may actually mean anything at all to her. Not trying to be a downer, but just trying to give you another perspective. Good luck.