You are like I was at the beginning of my sitch. Obsessed with the outcome. You have got to let go of the outcome. The waiting in limbo is a long haul. You are just beginning. And if you take care of yourself you will think less of it as 'limbo'.
GAL activities should not be that hard. Maybe do a project at home like cleaning or painting a room. It gets your mind off of things and makes you feel good when you are done.
Adopt 'patience' as a mantra. It is a marathon.
Thanks, VG. I know deep down that it is a marathon. I am just so impatient to see some sort of change in her attitude. I read all of these sitchs where there is interaction, discusssions, even small signs of affection. My W is completely business, not an ounce of interaction unless it is regarding D. Furthermore, I am recieving a lot of flak from family and friends that want me to let go and move on. EVERYONE seems to be resentful of her actions. That makes things 100 times worse, not to mention the setback of this "text".
This is probabbly just a down time for me. I will snap back, stronger than ever. Thanks for the support!
