Thanks everyone. I really needed that. Any more would be great. Ruby you make me laugh. My L is insistent on firing a salvo back to discredit claims and note her misbehaviour with the kids....not being around, irresponsible with bills, money, erratic behaviour etc. this morning she freaked on d10 for not getting up in the morning and dragged her by her ankles across the floor. This among other things she has said and done over months. Ontario is a no-fault jurisdiction as well so the infidelity cannot be used for settlement purposes but can and is typically used for custody arguments as it pertains to absentee and neglectful parenting depending on the circumstance. Mine qualifies for that. Also, it does become public record and ALL details are put into record. I have nothing to hide myself, which is why I guess she is grasping at straws.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
