Sorry to hear that. I agree with Cadet though. You two haven't given it enough time PLUS your W hasn't been completely honest with you.
Oh man is that ever true!!! As I just mentioned in the above reply she's never disclosed anything on the sitch with OM. And there are so many other things she has just been totally silent on.
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And it sounds like the two of you have focused so much on communicating that you haven't had time to just have fun together.
Absolutely true. That's been the case for many years. I've casually asked her to dinner, movies and painting classes since she moved out, but she always refuses unless the kids are along too. I've done the DB thing and gone anyway And when the kids come along she never sits next to me. So yeah, there's been no opportunities for us to have fun together. It's a shame because I'm actually pretty good at keeping people entertained