Sorry to hear that. I agree with Cadet though. You two haven't given it enough time PLUS your W hasn't been completely honest with you. It's totally normal to have several "false-starts" in R before the real work comes in.
And it sounds like the two of you have focused so much on communicating that you haven't had time to just have fun together. It takes time and most importantly it takes faith. Your W couldn't see the way out of her hole so she stayed in there where it is safe.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
