I forced the end of the affair and that lasted two months, before H jumped back in with OW. In normal situations, the discovering of an A is the beginning of the end. But in MLC it seems to add fuel to the fire. I'm letting it go and hoping it will die out on it's own. I feel like if I make an acknowledgement of it now, it is still going to continue anyway, or stop for a few months and then pick back up again. I feel like I'm just delaying the process. H has to see for himself that such a life with such a person is not going to make him happy.


M38,H39
M:16Y
BD:8/12
OWDB:11/12
S:11/12-5/13
"Temp" home:6/13
OW dropped:9/13
"I love you":12/13
H ring on:2/14
Depression back:5/15
"I'm done:" 7/15
H moved out: 3/16
H moved back: 12/16
Working on us: 3/17